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Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

Talking to Jesus: Learning to Listen

Pastor Rich Wilkerson Jr.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

Proverbs 3:5-6 MSG

Trust God from the bottom of your heart;

don’t try to figure out everything on your own.

Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; he’s the one who will keep you on track.


REFERENCES: 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, Matthew 3:16-17, Luke 18:16-17, Ephesians 5:25, Ephesians 5:31-32, John 14:25-26 MSG, John 10:27, John 15:13-14

Main Idea

Have you ever stopped to think about how intricate our bodies are? Our bodies are embedded with so much to help us live and enjoy life. One of the most beautiful things our bodies allow us to do is communicate with each other. We can use our mouths and body language to send messages outwards and we can use our ears and eyes to receive messages inwards. Our ability to receive communication might begin with a physical interaction but ends in our hearts. God designed us this way on purpose, so that he could always speak to us directly. Just as the author of Proverbs 3 states, our ability to listen to God himself comes from knowing and trusting him from the bottom of our hearts. Not just through our physical faculties like our ears and eyes. Heart to heart is how God meets us. Just like a father, friend or spouse, he is always speaking to us, because he loves us. He is the God who sees us in every situation, and wants us to know him.

So, will you listen?


If you love God, you’ll listen to him.

1. Listen Like A Child

Our father in heaven is perfect. God shows us this through his beloved son, Jesus. A perfect father will acknowledge us, show us affection, and affirm that we are his children. We are encouraged to approach him with childlike faith. We learn to listen like a child by slowing down to capture the details of what God is trying to say to us, to take Him at his word, and believe like a child that what he is saying is true.


Luke 18:16-17

But Jesus called the children to him and said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”

Children are not in a hurry - you'll get more details about God, the slower you go
Children take you at your word - you can believe the word of God
Our perfect Heavenly Father can heal our earthly father wound

The biggest thing preventing you from hearing the voice of God is not his speech, it's your speed.

In what ways can you slow down in your life to hear God better?

2. Listen Like A Spouse

In Jesus, God offers us an intimate relationship, like the intimacy between husband and wife. Prayer is our opportunity to listen to God in close proximity and develop the intimacy he desires. We further deepen that intimacy by learning to recognize God’s voice through studying his word, hearing his word proclaimed, and going and sharing his word.


Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her


Ephesians 5:31-32 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.

Jesus desires intimacy with us
Intimacy is a result of time spent being close
We draw close to God and learn his voice through time in prayer and scripture

Intimacy will not happen without proximity.

In what ways do you spend time getting close to God?

Summary

Have you realized that the same letters that spell out the word listen, spell out the word silent? A persons’ presence can be more comforting than a persons’ words. When it comes to the person of the Holy Spirit, this is who he is. He’s our comforter that listens to all that we have to say. He is like that friend that you can sit with in silence, and because you know them so well you are able to connect with them beyond a conversation. Because prayer is not just about speaking, but about listening we can rest assured that even when we sit in silence God hears us. And as we continue to cultivate our relationship with him by spending more and more time in his presence we will discover that even in the silence God is speaking to us.

Call To Action

During our last week of 21 days of Prayer & Fasting, take the challenge to create space for God to speak. Shut down your apps and take 5 minutes daily for the next 7 days to sit in silence with the Holy Spirit. Listen to what he has to say.

Announcements

Pray First

We’re in week two of Pray First and there’s still time to join! Prayer is where intimacy with God begins—it aligns our hearts with His will and unlocks Heaven’s power in our lives.

Let’s grow closer to God together. Don’t miss this opportunity!

Join us for Pray First by texting "PRAY" to 30596.

Monday - Friday

Zoom Prayer @ 6:30AM
vouschurch.com/zoom

Monday - Saturday
IG Live @ 12:00PM

Wednesday - 12:00 - 1:00 PM
Prayer Rooms - Miami Gardens

Wednesday, January 15 - Pray First Gathering
7:00PM Pre-Hang
7:30PM Service
SoMi, Miami Gardens, Design District

For all gatherings information and resources on Pray First, please click here!

Baptisms Sunday

We are having baptisms this Sunday, January 19th, across all of our locations, and on the beach.

To sign up for baptisms, please click here.

Heart & Soul

Heart & Soul will be taking place on Wednesday, January 22nd. This is a night for anyone who loves VOUS with worship, community, and a stakeholders message from Pastor Rich on where we're headed in 2025.


This SZN, we will be holding Heart & Soul at VOUS City!


‍RSVP here to let us know which location you will be joining us at. This is a night you do not want to miss!

I Love My City

This month's spotlight initiative is human trafficking awareness. We aim to bring light to this critical issue by partnering with organizations working to prevent trafficking and support survivors.

We will meet at our South Miami, Design District, and Miami Gardens locations on Saturday, January 25th at 10:30am to gather and serve at an outreach throughout the city.

To sign up for an outreach at one of our locations or an Off-Site outreach, please click here.

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi
8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City
10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens
10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS Design District
10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online
10AM / 5PM Español

Visit VOUS


Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

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Crew Leader

Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

What Did You Expect?

Pastor Luke Barry

Continuing the Conversation
VOUSCon 2023: Reflect

VOUSCon was nothing short of a miracle! We're still praising God for all He did. Reflection builds gratitude. Spend the first few minutes of Crew sharing a testimony or reflection from VOUSCon 2023.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

Ephesians 3:20-21 NKJV

Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

Additional Scripture References: John 11:32; Job 13:15; John 11:5; Matthew 14:31

Main Idea

Life often doesn't meet our expectations, leading to frustration and disappointment. We may hope for one outcome, only to be met with something entirely different, creating a gap between what we expected and what we experienced. This gap can lead us to question God, our faith, and our hope. But through stories like that of Lazarus and Job, we learn that God isn’t in the business of just meeting expectations, He’s in the business of exceeding them.

God’s power to perform exceeds our ability to ask

1. Hope and Expectation

Faith grows through hope and trusting God’s timing. Positive expectations can fuel faith, while unmet expectations can lead to disappointment. Often, we expect something specific from God but find ourselves limiting Him to only a particular outcome. When we don’t see Him come through just as we expected, we can find ourselves frustrated and disappointed — where was God? The truth is, God is always at work. We may not always see Him moving, or understand His plan, but He has something greater in mind.

Disappointment can tempt us to give up on expectations, but it’s an opportunity to strengthen our faith
God’s plans always exceed our expectations
Don't allow your expectations of what God was “supposed” to do get in the way of what He wants to do

If God always met your expectations, how could He ever exceed them?

What areas of your life are you waiting for God to show up? How can you operate from faith in the present as you hope for the future?

2. Endurance and Enjoyment

Job’s story is a powerful example of enduring pain and disappointment without losing faith. Even in his suffering, Job declared, “Though He slay me, yet will I hope in Him.” Despite the immense loss, he continued to trust God, showing us that our hope can remain, even in the midst of struggle. Endurance is the ability to trust that God is working, even when we can’t see it.

Endurance strengthens our faith through trials
God hasn’t called us to merely endure life, He’s called us to enjoy it
Enjoying life is appreciating the little, it’s not a pain-free life, but a grateful one

We can say: “God, I don’t understand everything but I trust you in everything”

How has a difficult season strengthened your appreciation for God’s blessings?

Summary

Possibly the greatest source of frustration in life is unmet expectations. The difference between what we expected versus what we experienced often leads us to stop expecting. But there’s an invitation of faith amidst the frustration. Don’t lower your expectations; lift your faith. Give God something to exceed. God can do it, the question is: can you believe it?

Call To Action

Identify areas where you may be limiting God by expecting a specific outcome. Practice finding gratitude by celebrating the little things.

Announcements

Pray First

We’re in week two of Pray First and there’s still time to join! Prayer is where intimacy with God begins—it aligns our hearts with His will and unlocks Heaven’s power in our lives.

Let’s grow closer to God together. Don’t miss this opportunity!

Join us for Pray First by texting "PRAY" to 30596.

Monday - Friday

Zoom Prayer @ 6:30AM
vouschurch.com/zoom

Monday - Saturday
IG Live @ 12:00PM

Wednesday - 12:00 - 1:00 PM
Prayer Rooms - Miami Gardens

Wednesday, January 15 - Pray First Gathering
7:00PM Pre-Hang
7:30PM Service
SoMi, Miami Gardens, Design District

For all gatherings information and resources on Pray First, please click here!

Baptisms Sunday

We are having baptisms this Sunday, January 19th, across all of our locations, and on the beach.

To sign up for baptisms, please click here.

Heart & Soul

Heart & Soul will be taking place on Wednesday, January 22nd. This is a night for anyone who loves VOUS with worship, community, and a stakeholders message from Pastor Rich on where we're headed in 2025.


This SZN, we will be holding Heart & Soul at VOUS City!


‍RSVP here to let us know which location you will be joining us at. This is a night you do not want to miss!

I Love My City

This month's spotlight initiative is human trafficking awareness. We aim to bring light to this critical issue by partnering with organizations working to prevent trafficking and support survivors.

We will meet at our South Miami, Design District, and Miami Gardens locations on Saturday, January 25th at 10:30am to gather and serve at an outreach throughout the city.

To sign up for an outreach at one of our locations or an Off-Site outreach, please click here.

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi
8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City
10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens
10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS Design District
10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online
10AM / 5PM Español

Visit VOUS


Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

Sign Up

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