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Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

Breathe: How to Attack Anxiety

Pastor Rich Wilkerson Jr.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind

2 Timothy 1:7


REFERENCES: Proverbs 12:25, Mark 5:9, Mark 9:25, John 18:17-18, John 21:9-10, Matthew 6:25-34

Main Idea

*Warning* This might trigger you. Do you remember the first day of starting school or starting a new job? Do you remember the anxious thoughts you had? What should I wear? How should I act? What if they ask me a question I don't know? It felt like you couldn't handle the situation if things went differently than you imagined. The anticipation of things going wrong often prevents us from making the present moment the best it could be. When we don't have enough information, the prefrontal cortex in our brain uses a memory from a past experience to create a prediction of the future. We think of the worst outcome as a safety mechanism to prepare for what is to come. But oftentimes it is detrimental when we haven't developed a healthy mindset to protect us from a perceived threat. Anxiety is not a new concept. Throughout history and the Bible, great leaders and prophets experienced varying degrees of anxiety. Anxiety is a result of fearing the unknown. And while we can’t predict the future, we can put our faith in God's promises for us. God's word will strengthen our minds and guard our hearts. If God gave victory to those in the bible, you can believe He has also given you victory. In Him you can drown out the fears that fuel your anxiety and enjoy all God has for you.


Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, but a good word makes it glad. Proverbs 12:25

1. Name the Trigger

Do you know what triggers you? A lot of times we try different methods to ease the anxiety we experience. But we need to go to the root and identify the stimuli that causes it to be able to resolve it. Even Jesus on occasions first called out a demon by name before casting it out. We too can attack anxiety by calling it out in our lives.  Sometimes this means removing the spotlight from us and our own insecurities and mistakes and allowing God to turn our focus on what he says about our situation.


“You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” Eleanor Roosevelt

Allow Jesus to help you identify your trigger.
You are not defined by your anxiety, you are who God says you are.
The place of your greatest shame, God will turn into a place of redemption.

You have to name it in order to change it

How has shifting your focus from yourself to Jesus helped you combat anxiety?

2. Stop Catastrophizing


Do you ever find yourself playing out catastrophic events in your mind? When we encounter fear, it is often a reaction that prevents a bad incident, for example, not crossing the road when a semi truck is approaching. As uncertainty rises in our lives we may want to play out what will happen to prevent painful experiences. However, we end up wasting our imagination on things that will never actually happen. God calls us not to worry about what could go wrong, but to seek Him and trust that He will provide.


Matthew 6:27 And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?

80% of what we worry about never actually happens.
When you worry about something, you strike out before you even get to the plate.
Your worry doesn’t empty tomorrow it robs today.

Stop predicting catastrophes, start predicting melodies

Can you recall a time where your catastrophic thoughts stopped you from being present? What was the consequence?

Summary

We often trap ourselves in a box. We place boundaries on our identity and the belief that the best days are behind us. We let the period at the end of the sentence define us, however we have the opportunity to add a dot dot dot at the end of the period, redirecting and positioning us for what’s to come! Instead of reflecting on what was, we can look to what is YET to come. We can take refuge and comfort in God's word Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” With this we can charge forward confidently knowing that as long as we are breathing there is more to come after the period. Christ is faithful to completion, he doesn’t leave you anything less than whole, if you are still here, reading this, your story isn’t done. The best is YET to come.

Call To Action

Attack anxiety first thing in the morning and last thing at night! Start each day with a simple affirmation, and end each day with gratitude. When you wake up, pray, "Jesus, I trust you to be my strength to just keep going," and when you lie down at night, tell him "Jesus, thank you for being my strength to get me so far!"

Announcements

Crew Leader Application

Are you interested in leading a crew? Click here to fill out an application to become a crew leader in SZN 2!

VOUS High Nite

VOUS High Nite is a night for Junior High and High School Students to meet friends, worship and encounter God. It will be taking place Wednesday, April 2nd at both VOUS SoMi and VOUS Miami Gardens at 7PM.

To RSVP, click here.

There will also be a VOUS High Nite Parent Hangout. This will be an opportunity to learn more about VOUS High, have some dinner and get to know other parents in our community.

To RSVP for the Parent’s Hang, click here.

Where: VOUS Miami Gardens & VOUS SoMi

When: Saturday, April 2nd

Address:

VOUS Miami Gardens - 17801 NW 2nd Ave

Miami, FL 33169

VOUS SoMi - 6767 Sunset Dr, Miami, FL 33143

Doors Open at 7PM.

VOUS College Preview Day

Are you looking for a place to grow in leadership, community, and culture? Join us at VOUS College Preview Day on April 3rd to learn more about program offerings, connect with students, and ignite your journey to help fulfill the Great Commission!

RSVP now at vouscollege.com/preview

Where: VOUS Miami Gardens
When: Thursday, April 3rd
Address: 17801 NW 2nd Ave
Miami, FL 33169

Easter Egg Drop

The Easter Egg Drop is a family fun-filled day, including food, games, entertainment, and the crowd favorite: a helicopter egg drop with eggs stuffed with goodies and prizes!

For more information on the Easter Egg Drop, click here

If you are interested in serving, click here

Where: Charles Hadley Park

When: Saturday, April 19th

Address: 1350 NW 50th St

Miami, FL 33142

Easter at VOUS

​​Join us for Easter at VOUS as we celebrate the power of the cross. This is a weekend for the whole family! Pick a service time and invite a friend — there's room for you.

View Service Times and RSVP

The Road to VOUSCon

Join us on the road to VOUSCon as we embark on a 40-day relay run through the state of Florida. From Jacksonville to Miami, runners from every region are invited to participate in carrying the good news. Our finish line? VOUSCon 2025. Led by a core VOUS team, we’ll link arms with partner churches along the way, spotlighting the body of Christ and championing the local church through weekly outreach initiatives.

Starting Line: Sunday, May 11
Finish Line: Thursday, June 19

Learn More

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi

8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City

10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens

10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS DD

10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online

10AM / 12:00 PM / 5PM Español


Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

Crew Leader

Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

What Did You Expect?

Pastor Luke Barry

Continuing the Conversation
VOUSCon 2023: Reflect

VOUSCon was nothing short of a miracle! We're still praising God for all He did. Reflection builds gratitude. Spend the first few minutes of Crew sharing a testimony or reflection from VOUSCon 2023.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

Ephesians 3:20-21 NKJV

Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

Additional Scripture References: John 11:32; Job 13:15; John 11:5; Matthew 14:31

Main Idea

Life often doesn't meet our expectations, leading to frustration and disappointment. We may hope for one outcome, only to be met with something entirely different, creating a gap between what we expected and what we experienced. This gap can lead us to question God, our faith, and our hope. But through stories like that of Lazarus and Job, we learn that God isn’t in the business of just meeting expectations, He’s in the business of exceeding them.

God’s power to perform exceeds our ability to ask

1. Hope and Expectation

Faith grows through hope and trusting God’s timing. Positive expectations can fuel faith, while unmet expectations can lead to disappointment. Often, we expect something specific from God but find ourselves limiting Him to only a particular outcome. When we don’t see Him come through just as we expected, we can find ourselves frustrated and disappointed — where was God? The truth is, God is always at work. We may not always see Him moving, or understand His plan, but He has something greater in mind.

Disappointment can tempt us to give up on expectations, but it’s an opportunity to strengthen our faith
God’s plans always exceed our expectations
Don't allow your expectations of what God was “supposed” to do get in the way of what He wants to do

If God always met your expectations, how could He ever exceed them?

What areas of your life are you waiting for God to show up? How can you operate from faith in the present as you hope for the future?

2. Endurance and Enjoyment

Job’s story is a powerful example of enduring pain and disappointment without losing faith. Even in his suffering, Job declared, “Though He slay me, yet will I hope in Him.” Despite the immense loss, he continued to trust God, showing us that our hope can remain, even in the midst of struggle. Endurance is the ability to trust that God is working, even when we can’t see it.

Endurance strengthens our faith through trials
God hasn’t called us to merely endure life, He’s called us to enjoy it
Enjoying life is appreciating the little, it’s not a pain-free life, but a grateful one

We can say: “God, I don’t understand everything but I trust you in everything”

How has a difficult season strengthened your appreciation for God’s blessings?

Summary

Possibly the greatest source of frustration in life is unmet expectations. The difference between what we expected versus what we experienced often leads us to stop expecting. But there’s an invitation of faith amidst the frustration. Don’t lower your expectations; lift your faith. Give God something to exceed. God can do it, the question is: can you believe it?

Call To Action

Identify areas where you may be limiting God by expecting a specific outcome. Practice finding gratitude by celebrating the little things.

Announcements

Crew Leader Application

Are you interested in leading a crew? Click here to fill out an application to become a crew leader in SZN 2!

VOUS High Nite

VOUS High Nite is a night for Junior High and High School Students to meet friends, worship and encounter God. It will be taking place Wednesday, April 2nd at both VOUS SoMi and VOUS Miami Gardens at 7PM.

To RSVP, click here.

There will also be a VOUS High Nite Parent Hangout. This will be an opportunity to learn more about VOUS High, have some dinner and get to know other parents in our community.

To RSVP for the Parent’s Hang, click here.

Where: VOUS Miami Gardens & VOUS SoMi

When: Saturday, April 2nd

Address:

VOUS Miami Gardens - 17801 NW 2nd Ave

Miami, FL 33169

VOUS SoMi - 6767 Sunset Dr, Miami, FL 33143

Doors Open at 7PM.

VOUS College Preview Day

Are you looking for a place to grow in leadership, community, and culture? Join us at VOUS College Preview Day on April 3rd to learn more about program offerings, connect with students, and ignite your journey to help fulfill the Great Commission!

RSVP now at vouscollege.com/preview

Where: VOUS Miami Gardens
When: Thursday, April 3rd
Address: 17801 NW 2nd Ave
Miami, FL 33169

Easter Egg Drop

The Easter Egg Drop is a family fun-filled day, including food, games, entertainment, and the crowd favorite: a helicopter egg drop with eggs stuffed with goodies and prizes!

For more information on the Easter Egg Drop, click here

If you are interested in serving, click here

Where: Charles Hadley Park

When: Saturday, April 19th

Address: 1350 NW 50th St

Miami, FL 33142

Easter at VOUS

​​Join us for Easter at VOUS as we celebrate the power of the cross. This is a weekend for the whole family! Pick a service time and invite a friend — there's room for you.

View Service Times and RSVP

The Road to VOUSCon

Join us on the road to VOUSCon as we embark on a 40-day relay run through the state of Florida. From Jacksonville to Miami, runners from every region are invited to participate in carrying the good news. Our finish line? VOUSCon 2025. Led by a core VOUS team, we’ll link arms with partner churches along the way, spotlighting the body of Christ and championing the local church through weekly outreach initiatives.

Starting Line: Sunday, May 11
Finish Line: Thursday, June 19

Learn More

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi

8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City

10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens

10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS DD

10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online

10AM / 12:00 PM / 5PM Español


Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

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