SoMi / Online
I Have Enough
City
It's Time to Grow Up

Crew Leader

Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

Breathe: The Reality War

Pastor Luke Barry

Continuing the Conversation
VOUSCon 2023: Reflect

VOUSCon was nothing short of a miracle! We're still praising God for all He did. Reflection builds gratitude. Spend the first few minutes of Crew sharing a testimony or reflection from VOUSCon 2023.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

2 CORINTHIANS 10:3-5

3 For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. 4 The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. 5 We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.


REFERENCES: JOHN 18:37-38; EPHESIANS 6:10-17; JOHN 8:32; 1 PETER 5:8-9

Main Idea

Whether we want it or not, information in this present technological age is literally at our fingertips. Unsolicited newsletters pop into our email inboxes. One glaring headline after the next invades our newsfeed. And, somehow, subtle ideas and images that may or may not coincide with our thoughts and beliefs, find their way to our explore pages. With all that information constantly swirling from all directions, sometimes it can be hard to nail down the truth. Whether disguised by layers of conflicting perspectives or just lost completely, the path to truth can often lead to more questions than answers. Foundations that once seemed solid and dependable, become shakier and shakier. With the truth becoming more and more obscure, sometimes there can even be an underlying pressure or temptation to conform to the world’s standards for the sake of “peace.” And in trying to have peace on the surface we compromise true internal and mental peace. Sometimes to get to the truth, we have to disrupt the peace, but one thing is certain and completely unchanging; Jesus is truth. His message is reality. His life is the standard by which all others should be measured, rather than culture’s voice. As Paul teaches us in Corinthians; winning the wars waged in our hearts and minds begins with combating all lies of the enemy with God’s word, the truth, at any and all costs.


Peace if possible, truth at all costs. - Martin Luther

1. Reality Dissonance

Cognitive dissonance is when our thoughts, beliefs, and values are in conflict with each other, meaning we believe one way but act another. As God calls us into a deeper relationship with him we realize that even when we are doing the right thing if we are not doing the thing God has asked of us we experience dissonance. Jesus came to reveal the truth to the world. He is the cornerstone and foundation upon which everything else is built. When our thoughts, beliefs, and values don’t align with him, we are living a lie. Acting according to our beliefs is futile if our beliefs aren’t based in his reality.


Jesus answered, “You say that I am a king. In fact, the reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.” John 18:37 NIV

Jesus is the original to whom everything else conforms
When an idea, belief, or argument disagrees with Jesus, it’s false
Respond to God’s wake up calls and go back to the words He’s spoken

When you live in a fantasy, eventually you get a reality check

Is there an area in your life that you need a reality check with Jesus?

2. Freedom in Truth

We can easily get into the habit of complicating the truth, but the word of God spells out the truth clearly for us. We have a responsibility as Christians to not only know that there is truth but to be aware of what truth actually is and live it out. In Ephesians the apostle Paul details for us how we get ready to battle in the “ reality war” we are all a part of, our defense mechanism starts with truth and ends with truth, the word of God.  When we know the truth, believe the truth, and live the truth there is freedom.


“You will know the truth and the truth will set you free” John 8:32

If you’re lost, it’s not enough to know there is a compass, you have to follow it!
He wants to lead you out of the lie
Jesus is the truth, the way, the life

Lies bring bondage and truth brings freedom

What is a lie you used to believe to be the truth that Jesus has shed light on?

Summary

Caring for our mental health might often seem like a complex and time-consuming responsibility. Thankfully, the whole story of scripture shows us that just one, simple starting point holds the power to transform so many of our mental struggles: Start by knowing God’s truth. God’s truth is what keeps our lives in alignment with reality, the perfect ways that God intends for us to think, believe, and act. This truth is knowable and accessible because Jesus has come and perfectly revealed God’s truth to us. Plus, Jesus has given us God’s Spirit to guide us into all truth! When our lives correspond to the reality of God’s truth, we can be free from the Devil’s lies and unhelpful falsehoods that rob our peace of mind. As we deepen our knowledge of truth through a relationship with Jesus, we find abundant life and satisfaction for our longings. Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and the real hope for our best mental health.

Call To Action

We walk with peace when we walk in the light of the truth. Tear down the devil’s lies with God’s word. Read John 8, choose a verse to memorize from this scripture.

Announcements

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi
8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City
10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens
10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS Design District
10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online
10AM / 5PM Español

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Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

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VOUS Worship Night

You’re invited to worship night with new VOUS Worship music! All are welcome.

Sunday, May 26

6:00PM

VOUS SoMi + VOUS City

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VOUSCon 2024

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June 20-22

Miami, FL

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Crew Leader

Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

It’s Time to Grow Up

Pastor Manouchka Charles

Continuing the Conversation
VOUSCon 2023: Reflect

VOUSCon was nothing short of a miracle! We're still praising God for all He did. Reflection builds gratitude. Spend the first few minutes of Crew sharing a testimony or reflection from VOUSCon 2023.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭5:12-14‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“In fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you the elementary truths of God’s word all over again. You need milk, not solid food! Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.”

Hebrews‬ ‭6‬:‭1‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“Therefore let us move beyond the elementary teachings about Christ and be taken forward to maturity….” ‭

Additional Scripture References: ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭119‬:‭9‬-‭16‬ ‭NIV‬‬ 1 Peter 2:9, 1 Samuel 16:7, 1 Samuel‬ ‭16:13‬ ‭NIV‬, 1 Samuel 16:18, 1 Samuel 17:15, ‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭17:38-40‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Main Idea

Have you ever tried to run a long distance? If you have, you know that it requires real and consistent training to achieve your goal. No matter what your intention, without training, you may find it difficult to arrive at the finish line. Life is a marathon, not a sprint. In the same way, our journey of faith is one of endurance. Training at every stage of our development is important. Time does not dictate maturity, but our training will. You can be old and immature, and young and mature. It’s not about arriving, but simply starting. We can trust that God will give us everything we need at the time that we need it. We’re not delayed, we’re destined!

If you want to win the battles of life you need training.

1. You Are Set Apart

Our becoming comes from our believing. Do you believe that you’re called? That you’re chosen? That you’re cared for by God? Securing our identity in Christ allows us to develop and mature with him. If we don’t know who we are, we will never know who we can be. You’re not like the world, you’re not like everyone else, you’re not missing out.

But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation,God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. [1 Peter 2:9]

What God has for you is for you
You can’t be like what you are called to lead
It’s not about being more gifted, it’s about being more disciplined

You are not delayed, you’re being developed.

In what area do you find it difficult to believe what God says about you?

2. You Are Growing

You are called and chosen by God. You are anointed but may not yet be appointed. Maturity prepares you to steward what God has called you to. An untrained David could never beat Goliath. He was able to fight appropriately because he had trained for years. Spiritual maturity is the process of becoming more Christ-like in character, attitude and behavior. You can’t go where God’s taking you without maturing along the way. 

7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” [1 Samuel 16:7]

Time will not dictate your maturity, your training will
The mark of maturity is not just hearing the word, but listening to what the Word says
Although you might have not walked in it yet, you are it

If you never train, you will never become

What are you doing today to mature for tomorrow?

Summary

Availability unlocks the door of maturity in our lives. King Saul was supposed to fight but David made himself available for growth. His willingness to embrace the season he found himself in and make himself available to be developed allowed him to step up when he was called upon. Are you open to maturity? Are you open to growth? Are you open to change? The world will try to put on fear, insecurity, and failure. Pick up courage, security, and peace. God’s strength is with you as you daily surrender to Him.

Call To Action

Reflect this week on how you are investing your time to mature. Commit to spend time in one of these 5 areas:

  1. Dedicated time to prayer 
  2. Time off of social media
  3. Sabbath/Rest 
  1. Reading the word
  2. Serving others 

Be prepared to share your experience at Crew next time!

Announcements

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi
8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City
10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens
10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS Design District
10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online
10AM / 5PM Español

Visit VOUS


Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

Sign Up

VOUS Worship Night

You’re invited to worship night with new VOUS Worship music! All are welcome.

Sunday, May 26

6:00PM

VOUS SoMi + VOUS City

Learn More

VOUSCon 2024

We’re less than 50 days away from VOUSCon! Gather with thousands of like-minded leaders. Be equipped and empowered for the journey ahead.

June 20-22

Miami, FL

Get Your Ticket

Serve at VOUSCon

As we create an atmosphere that glorifies God, we create space for Him to move. As servant leaders, we carry the culture. Because we value Con, we invest in it.

Sign Up to Serve

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