SoMi / Online
I Have Enough
City
It's Time to Grow Up

Crew Leader

Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

Breathe: How to Attack Anxiety

Pastor Rich Wilkerson Jr.

Continuing the Conversation
VOUSCon 2023: Reflect

VOUSCon was nothing short of a miracle! We're still praising God for all He did. Reflection builds gratitude. Spend the first few minutes of Crew sharing a testimony or reflection from VOUSCon 2023.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind

2 Timothy 1:7


REFERENCES: Proverbs 12:25, Mark 5:9, Mark 9:25, John 18:17-18, John 21:9-10, Matthew 6:25-34

Main Idea

*Warning* This might trigger you. Do you remember the first day of starting school or starting a new job? Do you remember the anxious thoughts you had? What should I wear? How should I act? What if they ask me a question I don't know? It felt like you couldn't handle the situation if things went differently than you imagined. The anticipation of things going wrong often prevents us from making the present moment the best it could be. When we don't have enough information, the prefrontal cortex in our brain uses a memory from a past experience to create a prediction of the future. We think of the worst outcome as a safety mechanism to prepare for what is to come. But oftentimes it is detrimental when we haven't developed a healthy mindset to protect us from a perceived threat. Anxiety is not a new concept. Throughout history and the Bible, great leaders and prophets experienced varying degrees of anxiety. Anxiety is a result of fearing the unknown. And while we can’t predict the future, we can put our faith in God's promises for us. God's word will strengthen our minds and guard our hearts. If God gave victory to those in the bible, you can believe He has also given you victory. In Him you can drown out the fears that fuel your anxiety and enjoy all God has for you.


Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, but a good word makes it glad. Proverbs 12:25

1. Name the Trigger

Do you know what triggers you? A lot of times we try different methods to ease the anxiety we experience. But we need to go to the root and identify the stimuli that causes it to be able to resolve it. Even Jesus on occasions first called out a demon by name before casting it out. We too can attack anxiety by calling it out in our lives.  Sometimes this means removing the spotlight from us and our own insecurities and mistakes and allowing God to turn our focus on what he says about our situation.


“You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” Eleanor Roosevelt

Allow Jesus to help you identify your trigger.
You are not defined by your anxiety, you are who God says you are.
The place of your greatest shame, God will turn into a place of redemption.

You have to name it in order to change it

How has shifting your focus from yourself to Jesus helped you combat anxiety?

2. Stop Catastrophizing


Do you ever find yourself playing out catastrophic events in your mind? When we encounter fear, it is often a reaction that prevents a bad incident, for example, not crossing the road when a semi truck is approaching. As uncertainty rises in our lives we may want to play out what will happen to prevent painful experiences. However, we end up wasting our imagination on things that will never actually happen. God calls us not to worry about what could go wrong, but to seek Him and trust that He will provide.


Matthew 6:27 And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?

80% of what we worry about never actually happens.
When you worry about something, you strike out before you even get to the plate.
Your worry doesn’t empty tomorrow it robs today.

Stop predicting catastrophes, start predicting melodies

Can you recall a time where your catastrophic thoughts stopped you from being present? What was the consequence?

Summary

We often trap ourselves in a box. We place boundaries on our identity and the belief that the best days are behind us. We let the period at the end of the sentence define us, however we have the opportunity to add a dot dot dot at the end of the period, redirecting and positioning us for what’s to come! Instead of reflecting on what was, we can look to what is YET to come. We can take refuge and comfort in God's word Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” With this we can charge forward confidently knowing that as long as we are breathing there is more to come after the period. Christ is faithful to completion, he doesn’t leave you anything less than whole, if you are still here, reading this, your story isn’t done. The best is YET to come.

Call To Action

Attack anxiety first thing in the morning and last thing at night! Start each day with a simple affirmation, and end each day with gratitude. When you wake up, pray, "Jesus, I trust you to be my strength to just keep going," and when you lie down at night, tell him "Jesus, thank you for being my strength to get me so far!"

Announcements

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10:30AM / 12:30PM

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10:30AM / 12:30PM

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After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

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Sunday, May 26

6:00PM

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June 20-22

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Crew Leader

Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

It’s Time to Grow Up

Pastor Manouchka Charles

Continuing the Conversation
VOUSCon 2023: Reflect

VOUSCon was nothing short of a miracle! We're still praising God for all He did. Reflection builds gratitude. Spend the first few minutes of Crew sharing a testimony or reflection from VOUSCon 2023.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭5:12-14‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“In fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you the elementary truths of God’s word all over again. You need milk, not solid food! Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.”

Hebrews‬ ‭6‬:‭1‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“Therefore let us move beyond the elementary teachings about Christ and be taken forward to maturity….” ‭

Additional Scripture References: ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭119‬:‭9‬-‭16‬ ‭NIV‬‬ 1 Peter 2:9, 1 Samuel 16:7, 1 Samuel‬ ‭16:13‬ ‭NIV‬, 1 Samuel 16:18, 1 Samuel 17:15, ‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭17:38-40‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Main Idea

Have you ever tried to run a long distance? If you have, you know that it requires real and consistent training to achieve your goal. No matter what your intention, without training, you may find it difficult to arrive at the finish line. Life is a marathon, not a sprint. In the same way, our journey of faith is one of endurance. Training at every stage of our development is important. Time does not dictate maturity, but our training will. You can be old and immature, and young and mature. It’s not about arriving, but simply starting. We can trust that God will give us everything we need at the time that we need it. We’re not delayed, we’re destined!

If you want to win the battles of life you need training.

1. You Are Set Apart

Our becoming comes from our believing. Do you believe that you’re called? That you’re chosen? That you’re cared for by God? Securing our identity in Christ allows us to develop and mature with him. If we don’t know who we are, we will never know who we can be. You’re not like the world, you’re not like everyone else, you’re not missing out.

But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation,God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. [1 Peter 2:9]

What God has for you is for you
You can’t be like what you are called to lead
It’s not about being more gifted, it’s about being more disciplined

You are not delayed, you’re being developed.

In what area do you find it difficult to believe what God says about you?

2. You Are Growing

You are called and chosen by God. You are anointed but may not yet be appointed. Maturity prepares you to steward what God has called you to. An untrained David could never beat Goliath. He was able to fight appropriately because he had trained for years. Spiritual maturity is the process of becoming more Christ-like in character, attitude and behavior. You can’t go where God’s taking you without maturing along the way. 

7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” [1 Samuel 16:7]

Time will not dictate your maturity, your training will
The mark of maturity is not just hearing the word, but listening to what the Word says
Although you might have not walked in it yet, you are it

If you never train, you will never become

What are you doing today to mature for tomorrow?

Summary

Availability unlocks the door of maturity in our lives. King Saul was supposed to fight but David made himself available for growth. His willingness to embrace the season he found himself in and make himself available to be developed allowed him to step up when he was called upon. Are you open to maturity? Are you open to growth? Are you open to change? The world will try to put on fear, insecurity, and failure. Pick up courage, security, and peace. God’s strength is with you as you daily surrender to Him.

Call To Action

Reflect this week on how you are investing your time to mature. Commit to spend time in one of these 5 areas:

  1. Dedicated time to prayer 
  2. Time off of social media
  3. Sabbath/Rest 
  1. Reading the word
  2. Serving others 

Be prepared to share your experience at Crew next time!

Announcements

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi
8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City
10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens
10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS Design District
10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online
10AM / 5PM Español

Visit VOUS


Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

Sign Up

VOUS Worship Night

You’re invited to worship night with new VOUS Worship music! All are welcome.

Sunday, May 26

6:00PM

VOUS SoMi + VOUS City

Learn More

VOUSCon 2024

We’re less than 50 days away from VOUSCon! Gather with thousands of like-minded leaders. Be equipped and empowered for the journey ahead.

June 20-22

Miami, FL

Get Your Ticket

Serve at VOUSCon

As we create an atmosphere that glorifies God, we create space for Him to move. As servant leaders, we carry the culture. Because we value Con, we invest in it.

Sign Up to Serve

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